- A Nigerian woman expressed her views on parents giving their children as house helps.
- She believes many children are misallocated to domestic service instead of receiving proper upbringing.
- The woman strongly advises against this practice.

A Nigerian lady has sparked reactions online after sharing her opinion about parents giving out their children as house helps.
According to her, many children are being wrongly placed in domestic service instead of being properly raised by their parents. She strongly advised against the practice, stressing that children should be cared for at home and not handed over to other households.
She also offered advice to parents on family planning and responsibility, saying people should only have children they can adequately cater for financially and emotionally.
In her words:
“Stop giving your children out as house help to Igbo women, they only know how to take care of their own children. If you don’t have money to cater for children, don’t give birth and only have the number of children you can properly raise. Children are blessings but also an expense, you need money to take care of them.”
Her statement has since generated mixed reactions online, with many agreeing with her while others debated the tone and generalization of her remarks.
See post below:
@Details:”Igbo women will tell you that it’s misogyny in Igbo land that’s pushing them to abuse innocent minors, but they somehow omit their own kids to maltreat other people’s kids. Maybe, Igbo men are the ones fighting for their lives in the hands of Igbo women if we really look into it.”
@MPERI ℹ️ 💯:”Just say make woman never ready to born no born ever give birth because of you fit take care of your child why giving them out to be house help for another person wey plan Befor them give birth”
@Trinity 🇮🇱:”The problem isn’t “Igbo women.” It’s parents outsourcing poverty to other people’s homes and calling it help. If you can’t raise your child, don’t turn them into unpaid labour and then blame tribe when they’re mistreated.”
@Zatas:”Igbo women are very wicked ehhh especially the fat ones”
@Eric:”True, I’ve seen a lot of abuse and stuff like this in my area, I dey pity the girls sometime sef.
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