Blessing Okoro also known as Blessing CEO, Nigerian relationship coach, has advised people to not confess whenever they cheat.
She said it is important for an unfaithful partner to forgive theirself and move on without having to tell their partner about the infidelity.
Blessing stressed that if the person was not caught cheating, then that aspect of their lives should remain a secret for eternity.
She further said , the person who was cheated on does not care the reason they did such or about repentance.
She said confession would not change anything about how the partner will react because they will be judged once they talk about their infidelity.
Watch her speak below:
In other news, a Nigerian man has lamented over the complications in his marriage after discovering that his wife is having an affair.
He sought advice from netizens on how to handle the matter of his wife of nine years being unfaithful probably because he has a baby mama.
The husband said he travels from Abuja to Canada and back on a regular basis, and his babymama is based in Canada. His wife and children are based in the Federal Capital Territory, Nigeria.
In an effort to prevent her from finding out about his double life on social media, the man who fathered 3 children with his wife, informed her of his baby mama with whom he welcomed two kids.
He said that he found out she is cheating on him when he checked her phone after some suspicions and he confirmed his fears.
Feeling confused on what to do, he went on line to ask for advice and suggestions on the way forward for him.
He wondered if leaving her is the best line of action because there is a belief that once a woman cheats things can never return to normal.
Read his write-up;
”Hi. Would love to know what people think. Please keep anon. I travel back and forth Abuja and Canada. My wife of 9 years and three kids, based in Abuja, is cheating on me. I was suspecting this but then, I managed to hack into her phone to confirm this.
Although I love her, I’ve got a baby mama in Canada who has 2 kids for me. I had to tell my wife in Nig cos nothing is hidden in this era of social media. Could my wife be cheating on me cos of this? If that is the case, what’s my best course of action, leave her cos they say once a woman cheats, it’s over. Or should I do everything I can to convince that I still love her?”
