“I Thought I’d Be Married by 21″- 40-Year-Old Woman Blames Past Mistakes for Being Unmarried

• A 40-year-old woman went viral after sharing a candid video about her regrets over not getting married as planned.
• She blamed some of her teenage decisions for her current situation, sparking mixed reactions and debates across social media.

A 40-year-od woman has sparked widespread discussion on social media after sharing an emotional reflection on her life, unfulfilled marriage plans, and the personal choices she believes have shaped her current reality.

In a viral video circulating online, the woman spoke candidly about her expectations while growing up, revealing that she had hoped to get married in her early twenties and complete childbirth before her late twenties. However, she admitted that life did not unfold as planned.

Reflecting on her present situation, she noted that as she approaches 40, she is not only unmarried but also not in any romantic relationship. According to her, decisions she made earlier in life, particularly during her teenage years, continue to affect her chances of settling down.

She acknowledged that some of her past mistakes have had lasting consequences, stating that they may be the reason she has struggled to find a partner willing to marry her.

Her honest confession triggered mixed reactions online. While some viewers praised her for taking responsibility and being self-aware, others were more critical, questioning her choices and the timing of her reflection.

Is it too late?

40 yrs old woman narrates how she's still unmarried at her age and still not even in a relationship pic.twitter.com/E1wFapX1kc

— WithAlvin 🇬🇭 (@withAlvin__) January 21, 2026

In other news…. Social media commentator and influencer, VeryDarkMan, has continued his public criticism of Afrobeats superstar Wizkid, accusing the singer of repeatedly diminishing the legacy of music legends and senior figures within the Nigerian music industry.

In a recent outburst shared online, VeryDarkMan argued that Wizkid has not made sufficient contributions to society to justify placing himself on the same level as iconic figures such as late Afrobeat pioneer, Fela Anikulapo Kuti. He described Wizkid’s recent comments comparing himself to Fela as poorly timed and insensitive, claiming they failed to reflect the mood of the public.

According to VeryDarkMan, Wizkid’s remarks allegedly emboldened some fans to disrespect Fela’s legacy, which he described as deeply troubling given Fela’s cultural and societal impact beyond music.

The influencer further alleged that Wizkid has a recurring pattern of downplaying the achievements of industry pioneers. To support his claims, he referenced a past online incident involving Mavin Records boss Don Jazzy. VeryDarkMan claimed that Wizkid subtly dismissed Don Jazzy by reposting comments that reduced the renowned music executive to merely an “influencer.”

He insisted that these actions were not isolated but reflective of a broader attitude, urging Wizkid to show greater respect to those who laid the foundation for the industry.

In his words, VeryDarkMan said Wizkid does not surpass Fela in terms of societal contribution and accused the singer of deliberately “testing the waters” before making comments that could provoke backlash and fuel disrespect toward music legends.

“Wizkid is not even greater than me talk less of Fela. He’s not. Contribution to the society? Get out, he’s not. A lot of them can’t even lace my boots. He started a pattern, and after testing the waters he decided to try again. That is why he decided to do this one that he is doing to Fela. The sad part is that Wizkid did not read the room before he decided to do this thing to Fela by instigating his followers to insult Fela Kuti’s name.

What is this pattern? Wizkid likes to downplay the legacy of the people before him. I’ll give you an example: Don Jazzy. Wizkid say e no fit talk to person wey dey signed to an influencer. Then another person now ask, shay na Don Jazzy you dey talk to? And Wizkid reposted it. Then another person said Don Jazzy na influencer na, and Wizkid reposted it.”