Solomon Buchi, an influential relationship guru known for his forthright comments, recently gave some useful advise for men thinking about marriage.
In his most recent words of wisdom, he disclosed that when a guy proposes to a woman, he is not giving her a favor, and that it is critical to abandon the assumption that women require marriage to be happy.
Buchi’s speech addresses a widely held misconception: that a woman’s life can only be complete or fulfilled through marriage. He remarked that Nigerian males should quit watching too much nollywood, where such beliefs emerge.
“Dear men,
When you’re asking a woman to marry you, you’re not saving her. You’re not taking away her shame; there’s no shame there. You’re not doing her a favour. Stop sounding like she needs to marry you to get life fixed, and if she rejects you, she won’t suffer, neither would she regret it.
You’re not the only great guy as you’ve made yourself believe. Reduce watching Nollywood too.”
This isn’t the first time Solomon Buchi has voiced his views on pressing issues.
He recently shared his view point on the tragic passing of Mohbad and didn’t hold back in his criticism of the Nigerian music industry. He boldly pointed out that most Nigerian artists were cultists.
Following the unfortunate and sudden death of Nigerian musician Mohbad, debates over his death have taken numerous forms.
Solomon Buchi, a writer and activist, has just joined the discourse, making bold assertions about the Nigerian music industry.
The death of Mohbad sparked outrage as a video surfaced showing the late musician being bullied by Naira Marley’s sidekick, Sam Larry.
The video stunned many people and sparked a flood of criticism and condemnation directed against Naira Marley, a significant figure in Nigeria’s music scene.
Reacting to the video and all the recent happening, Solomon Buchi had this to say,
“I’ve been under the pages of books researching about Mohbad, his music boss, Naira Marley and other parties that were involved in his life until his unfortunate demise. This has reinforced my belief that the Nigerian music industry is a cesspool of cultism, gangsterism, diabolical politics and abysmal moral volume.
“I listened to a very few of his songs, and noticed the pain in his voice, the sonorous and sober tone, and his poignant lyrics that often expressed the difficulty of life. His music mirrored his deepest struggles, and hope to overcome. It got me thinking about his story…”
“It got me thinking about the rot, evil and darkness that exists in the realms of entertainment, and how we should be careful who we listen to. Naira Marley, Mohbad’s boss, was highly celebrated by young Nigerians. He was rewarded with clout – a young man with little morals.”
“Almost nothing to be exemplary of, Naira Marley rose to fame by subliminally endorsing fraud and other negative vices.
Marley has been arrested over 124 times in England and was once declared wanted. This is the man many of you, even Christians, revered as your president. You danced to his songs and labelled yourselves Marians: a terrible and lousy group of youngsters I assumed were stark irresponsible. The older generation warned us, sharply criticized Marley’s stardom and his possible influence on youngsters, but our generation is always right.”
“Now, he’s roped in this situation, with strong and believable allegations of Mohbad’s death on him. Just yesterday, I decided to peep his Instagram page, and was appalled – it was filled with random videos of women’s bum, degeneracy and everything unworthy of emulation.”
“And most of our youngsters listened and praised him until just before Mohbad’s death.
Marley is only the popular example here, but generally, the Nigerian music industry is a game of dirty power, gang rivalry and shady deals.”
“Most popular Nigerian musicians are cultists.
Through their music videos, dressing, lingo and fraternal phrases, they are easy to identity. And what do they do? Of course, they don’t kill mosquitoes or keep peace-it’s a cycle of chaos.”
“It seems that some of you love the feel of thuggery in their music, when the reality of it, is dangerous. I will not be caught donating my time, social media like button and money to an enterprise that is built on the tentacles of thuggery, immorality and evil. RIP Mohbad.”
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