“Struggle Dries Up a Man’s Emotional Sauce” – Man Tells Ladies Dating or Married to Men Who Grew Up Poor

• In a Facebook post on Sunday, he explained that many men from poor backgrounds often find it hard to show affection through typical romantic gestures like giving flowers or openly expressing love.

Nigerian businessman James Omeiza has shared his thoughts on women in relationships with men who struggle to be romantic due to their upbringing in poverty.

In a Facebook post on Sunday, he explained that many men from poor backgrounds often find it hard to show affection through typical romantic gestures like giving flowers or openly expressing love.

He emphasized the need for patience, empathy, and a supportive approach to help such men grow emotionally.

He wrote…

“A very important announcement to all the Omalichas and Olomoges in the building, gather here, make I yarn you one thing wey fit save your heart from premium tears,” he wrote.

Let me gist you about the kind of man you might be falling head over heels for, because love no dey look face, but e dey enter trap sometimes.

Men who crawled out of the trenches of poverty, who fought battles just to break the cycle, don’t always come out holding flowers and whispering sweet romantic songs to you.

Celine Dion or West life love songs no dey move them. Let this be known.

Sis, before you report him to the marriage committee, his pastor or start complaining that “money isn’t everything” and you want more romance, remember: struggle doesn’t just drain a man’s pockets, it can dry up the emotional sauce too.

He may not write love poems, but his hustle is his love language. Learn to see the romance in his sacrifice. Love him for who he is, and help him evolve, not resent.