“S3x is marriage”- Pastor’s Wife Declares S3x Was Reason for Marriage

• Reverend (Mrs) Stellamaris Ajetomobi has gone viral after stating that sex is the core purpose of marriage.
• She added that marital intimacy is exclusive to one’s spouse and framed it as a divinely sanctioned duty:
• Her comments on marital duties and intimacy have sparked widespread debate across social media platforms.

A Nigerian cleric, Reverend (Mrs) Stellamaris Ajetomobi, has stirred widespread reactions after a video of her making controversial remarks on marriage, sex, and marital duties went viral online.

The clip, which has circulated extensively on social media, shows the pastor speaking candidly about her understanding of marital responsibility, describing sex as the central purpose of marriage.

“If I need to do it, it’s gone down. Excuse me, sex is marriage. Sex is marriage. Let me tell you, in my father’s house I used to wear clothes. I eat rice. I eat any food. I have house to leave everything. What do you think I came to look for in my husband’s house? It’s sex. It’s sex. Sex is the matter. It’s very yours,” she said.

She added that marital intimacy is exclusive to one’s spouse and framed it as a divinely sanctioned duty:

“If I do it with any other man, I will be stoned. If I do it with any other man, God will frown at it. So he’s the only one I have liberty.”

Reverend Ajetomobi also addressed other household and parenting responsibilities, emphasizing that while tasks like cooking, laundry, and child supervision are helpful, they are secondary to what she described as a spouse’s “core assignment.”

“And they even gave me certificate, as many of you that were there that day. Certificate to do. And so, if anybody find me, you find me in your pastor’s room. You can’t query me, isn’t it? Because that is the assignment you send me to be doing there. You can help me cook. That’s not bad. You can help me wash clothes. That’s not bad. In fact, you can help me do homework for my children. I pay teachers to do that. This assignment, this is the core assignment. I can’t pay anybody. If I need to do it, it’s gone down,” she explained.