- A Nigerian lady has advised women to avoid men who insult them during disagreements, stressing that true respect is shown in moments of anger.
- She warned that tolerating insults can lead to long-term emotional harm and urged women to recognise such red flags early.
A Nigerian lady has urged young women to be cautious about the men they marry, stressing that a partner’s true character is revealed in moments of anger.
She explained that a man who respects his partner will never resort to insults, even in heated arguments. According to her, respect is tested not when he is calm, but when he is provoked.
The lady warned that insults, if tolerated, can escalate over time, causing long-term emotional damage and even extending to family members. She advised women to “run afar” from men who normalise insults, noting that patience and restraint are the marks of a responsible partner.
Her post sparked mixed reactions on social media—while many agreed, others argued the advice was one-sided and that women also need reminders on how to behave in relationships.
See some of the reactions below:
RealSirPee wrote: “You people’s advice is always about how a man treats a lady. Why don’t you people tell ladies how to behave? Some of them misbehave and blame it on zodiac sign, hormonal imbalance, mood swing, menstruation, etc.”
_SammyNas stated: “I won’t use bad words for you, but I’ll raise my voice, you can’t piss me off and expect me to be talking to you like a princess.”
edinen_ commented: “Men marry ladies who speak good words to you when angry.”
ox_villex observed: “Na the one way go beat craze comot their body dem dey always fine.”
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