- A man has sparked discussion on social media about men’s understanding of women’s emotional and physical needs.
- He emphasizes the importance of being observant and emotionally present to notice subtle changes in a woman’s body and mood.
- The man claims he can identify when a woman is menstruating or ovulating, highlighting the significance of awareness in relationships.

A man has stirred debate on social media after sharing his thoughts on what it truly means for men to understand women, particularly when it comes to their emotional and physical needs.
According to him, men who pay close attention can easily pick up on subtle changes in a woman’s body and mood. He confidently stated that he can tell when a woman is menstruating or ovulating, stressing that such awareness comes from being observant and emotionally present.
“I know when a lady is menstruating or ovulating except you’re not in my space. You cannot hide it. Whether you’re in pain or not, I know when a lady wants to be pampered. I repeat, except you’re not in my space,” he said.
He went on to criticise women who complain that their partners fail to notice when something is wrong. In his view, the problem often lies in a man’s lack of attention or insufficient understanding of women. He suggested that many men simply do not take the time to learn and study their partners.
The speaker further explained that truly knowing a woman goes beyond surface-level attraction. He described it as achieving balance in different areas of life emotional, psychological, spiritual, physical, and financial and using that stability to provide security in a relationship.
“As a man, you’re supposed to study a woman and understand the basics first. I’m emotionally balanced, psychologically balanced, spiritually balanced, physically balanced, and financially balanced. What does a woman need? A woman needs security. I know how to secure my woman,” he added.
He also argued that the modern idea of independence in relationships is sometimes exaggerated, maintaining that security and attentive partnership remain key foundations for a healthy bond.
“Most women forget all these once they are saying, ‘I want to be an independent woman, I want work.’ It’s a lie. Most women don’t want to do anything. They want to lie down and they want breakfast in bed,” he concluded.
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