- A lady has warned women that some men fake obsession and jealousy to manipulate emotions, saying such behaviour is often transactional and not a sign of genuine love.
A Nigerian lady has sparked conversation online after issuing a strong warning to women about men who pretend to be obsessed with them in relationships.
In a video shared on social media, the lady explained that what many women interpret as deep obsession or intense love is sometimes carefully staged emotional manipulation.
“Men can fake obsession. It a fake obsession for you, but it make you feel like if they obsessed with you and make you feel they won’t be able to live without you,” she said.
According to her, some men deliberately create an illusion of exclusivity, making a woman believe she is the only one in their life in order to secure emotional control and attachment.
She further noted that behaviours often mistaken for love — such as jealousy, possessiveness, and constant monitoring — are frequently performative rather than genuine.
“If he sees you with another boy, he’ll pretend to be jealous. Na lie, na fake fake jealousy. It not real jealousy, because he knows that if you no feel that jealousy, you go feel say, he no love you,” she explained.
The lady cautioned women not to confuse such actions with real commitment, stressing that fake obsession is often transactional and driven by physical attraction rather than care or respect.
“It not care about you. He’s just there for your body!” she added.
In other news…. Fans were left in awe after a video surfaced showing David Adeleke, popularly known as Davido, performing at the Grammy House ahead of the 68th Grammy Awards, scheduled for February 1.
Davido, who earned a nomination for his song “With You” featuring Omah Lay in the Best African Music Performance category, treated the audience to an electrifying set. The video, shared by Tunde Ednut, captured him performing some of his biggest hits, including “If,” “Aye,” “Only You,” and “Them Go Feel It.”
Audience members could be seen singing along passionately and recording the performance, clearly thrilled by the show.
Fans flooded social media with praise for Davido, celebrating his consistency and dedication despite his already successful and wealthy status. Many expressed hope that his Grammy nomination would finally translate into a win.
Some supporters interpreted his performance at the Grammy House as a positive omen for victory, while others emphasized that winning isn’t what defines him as an artist. They pointed out that even globally acclaimed artists like Nicki Minaj have never won a Grammy, yet remain iconic.
Overall, fans agreed that Davido’s achievements and influence make him a winner regardless of the outcome, underscoring that awards alone cannot measure an artist’s impact.
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