- A Nigerian lady shared a detailed list of desired qualities for her future husband on X.
- The post sparked significant online debate regarding the authenticity of her expectations.
- Users are divided on whether her list is serious or intended as a joke.

A Nigerian lady has ignited intense online discussions after posting an extensive list of qualities she wants in a future husband.
Her post, shared on X, quickly gained traction, prompting users to argue whether her expectations were genuine or meant as humor.
In the post, she outlined a series of strict conditions for any potential spouse.
She specified that her ideal partner must be a virgin, earn a seven-figure income, and still have unlimited free time.
Additionally, he should be naturally attractive without relying on gym-built muscles or photo filters.
Her list didn’t stop there. She insisted that he cover all household expenses without splitting bills, be able to cook, and ask for permission before going anywhere, while avoiding patriarchal behavior.
She also stated that her future husband should treat her parents as his own.
Social media usage and female friendships were non-negotiable she demanded that he stay off platforms and have no female friends.
She further required him to share his live location 24/7 and erase his entire past.
On top of that, she expects him to remain calm, emotionally available at all times, free of ego, and completely healed from past traumas without ever seeking therapy.
Her post read: “I will only marry a man who is:
- A virgin
- Earns 7 figures but still has unlimited free time
- Naturally handsome (no gym, no filters)
- Pays all bills no 50/50
- Knows how to cook
- Asks permission before going anywhere
- Non-patriarchal
- Takes care of my parents like his own
- Doesn’t use social media
- Has no female friends
- Shares his live location 24×7
- Deletes his entire past
- Calm and “emotionally available” 24×7
- Has zero ego
- Fully healed from all trauma but never went to therapy.”

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