Lady Dumps Life Abroad, After Her Fiancé Asked Her To Choose between him and France

• A viral X (Twitter) exchange sparked debate after a user questioned why some women abandon promising lives abroad for men back home. Another user shared a story about a woman who left her business school in France for love in Akure, only to struggle afterward.

A heated conversation has erupted on X (formerly Twitter) after a user questioned why some women abandon thriving lives abroad to return home because of relationships.

User @Ooreoluwaaaa sparked the debate, asking,

“How do you leave Toronto, Canada and go back to Iwo with man?? Are you people ok at all?”

Responding, @Steadi_Lady (Oiza) shared a personal story about a woman she knows who made a similar decision.

“A lady I personally know left her business school in France and went back to Akure because a man forced her to choose between him and her life there. I can’t even begin to describe how difficult things have been for her since,” she wrote.

Another user, @Rene_noire, chimed in with a pointed comment:

“Let me guess, she’s 30 plus?”

To which Oiza confirmed,

“Yes. The story long sef.”

The exchange has reignited conversations about the sacrifices women make in relationships, especially when it comes to choosing between love and career advancement abroad.