- Coach Oleju Kate believes she cannot marry a man who is not involved in his church department or doesn’t believe in paying tithes.
- She made this known through a video shared on her social media page.
Media personality and relationship coach Oleju Kate has made headlines following her firm stance on the kind of man she’s willing to marry.
In a video circulating on social media, Kate laid out her spiritual expectations, stating clearly that any man who does not actively serve in a church department or who doesn’t believe in paying tithe is automatically disqualified from being her potential spouse.
She emphasized that a man’s involvement in church activities and his commitment to tithing are non-negotiable for her, as they reflect shared spiritual values and discipline.
In her words:
“If you’re not serving in any department in your church, or you’re not serving as a steward anywhere, you cannot marry me. If you don’t believe in tithe as a man, I don’t believe that I’m your wife.”
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The clip has since gone viral, sparking diverse reactions from social media users—some applauding her strong values, while others questioned the rigid nature of her criteria.
Reacting to the post…
@DAllSeeinRetina said: “With this face,she still want select??”
@powerchibueze wrote: “She is making a hidden point and speaking the bitt€r truth.. she is basically telling you that she can’t marry someone who is n0t a born again”
@fc_acct remarked: “My problem is the any she added, my dear your options no too full market like that based on your features oo”
@BigPeace6 wrote: “Person wey pastor fit de follow you share”
@tboss_guy said: “Sounding spirikoko has left a lot of women in their late 30s looking for just a good fearing man. Being a church worker guarantees not so much.”
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