Harrysong Shares Video Of Daughters Resisting Visit To Mum Amid Custody Dispute

• Nigerian singer Harrysong shares a video of his two daughters online.
• The video comes amid a custody dispute with their mother, Alexer Perez Gopa.
• Alexer recently announced her decision to temporarily give up custody of their children, aged four and three.

Popular Nigerian singer Harrison Tare Okiri, better known as Harrysong, has sparked fresh reactions online after sharing a video of his two young daughters amid his ongoing custody dispute with their mother, Alexer Perez Gopa.

The clip emerged shortly after Alexer publicly announced her decision to temporarily relinquish custody of their children, aged four and three.

In an emotional Instagram story posted on Thursday, January 29, 2026, Alexer disclosed that the move followed years of alleged pressure and harassment from the singer following their separation.

She explained that she has been solely responsible for raising the children for about two years but has constantly faced interference from Harrysong. According to her, the singer frequently shows up at her residence without prior notice, disrupting her efforts and leaving her emotionally drained.

Alexer further claimed that Harrysong has repeatedly insisted on taking over the children’s care, despite her belief that his busy lifestyle makes him largely unavailable. She also alleged that he has used his status and resources to make things increasingly difficult for her.

She revealed that she had previously reported the situation to welfare authorities but has now chosen to step back temporarily, stressing that she plans to fight for custody again when she is emotionally and mentally ready.

While expressing deep concern for the safety and well-being of her children, Alexer said her decision was not an act of surrender but a necessary step toward peace and healing. She also disclosed plans to move from Asaba to Lagos to rebuild her life.

In the video later shared by Harrysong, the singer was seen escorting his daughters into a car, reportedly to return them to their mother. During the moment, one of the girls could be heard saying she did not want to go to her “mummy’s house,” as Harrysong calmly urged them to get inside the vehicle.

He explained in the clip that he had little choice in the matter and wanted to prevent further online drama with his ex-wife.

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Read some comments below:

@pharmjoy_mikah:”This is enough proof that he is the problem. He is using those kids to manipulate the whole situation. Give that child 1 hour, she will look for mummy.”

@__bukunolami:”Children wey dey cunning, them go reach mummy place talk say them no wan go daddy place 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣children and scope.”

@zenny0617″The girl forgot about not going to her moms house when she saw grape 😀 Oya cut the camera 😂.”

@hannahmaiye:”Bcos he probably have money more than the lady and also gives them things they don’t have in mummy’s house. They are children ; y is the other one not saying same?”

@nekysparkles:”When parents play this silly games with kids, i just wonder. This is normal with kids. My kids prefers my younger sister’s house, cos she can eat all the junk food, watch movies till morning , literally get away with anything. Obviously mummy’s house has rules. Another angle, the kid was told what to say.”

@austinelois__:”Original manipulator 😂😂😂.”

@winniefrancesdaniels2015:”Minors especially girls cannot and should not live with their father in case of separation.”