- A man has gone viral after sharing relationship advice, saying women value a man’s self-growth more than gifts or kindness.
- He urged men to focus on building themselves, arguing that ambition and vision matter more than simply being a “good guy.”

A man has sparked conversations online after sharing the lessons he says he learned the hard way about women and relationships.
Speaking openly, he claimed that women value what a man has achieved for himself more than what he does for them. According to him, gifts and romantic gestures are not as important as personal growth, ambition, and self-confidence.
“Women value what you’ve done for yourself more than what you’ve done for her. It’s not about gifts or gestures; it’s about the person you are and how you carry your life,” he said.
He added that a man’s efforts can sometimes go unnoticed, suggesting that even small acts of kindness from someone else could shift a woman’s attention.
The man advised men to prioritize self-development instead of trying to “build” a woman. “Don’t build a woman—she’ll leave you. Build yourself instead. Focus on your goals, your career, your mindset. Women invest in men who invest in themselves,” he stated.
He also challenged the belief that being a “good guy” is enough to maintain a relationship, stressing that vision, ambition, and drive matter more.
In other news…. Former Premier League and England midfielder Ruben Loftus-Cheek has suffered a fractured jaw and lost multiple teeth following a heavy collision during a Serie A match.
The 30-year-old was playing for AC Milan when he clashed with Parma goalkeeper Edoardo early in the game. The incident happened just minutes into the encounter as Loftus-Cheek challenged for the ball inside the box.
Medical staff rushed onto the pitch and treated him for several minutes before he was fitted with a neck brace and stretchered off to hospital. Reports later confirmed that he sustained a broken jaw and lost several teeth in the impact.
Despite the setback, Loftus-Cheek shared a positive message on social media, thanking medical personnel, fans, and his teammates for their support. He assured supporters that the worst was behind him and that he would focus on recovery.
Loftus-Cheek was substituted after just 11 minutes, and Milan went on to lose 1-0 after a late goal from Mariano Troilo. He is now expected to spend time on the sidelines as he begins rehabilitation.
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