A boyfriend who does nothing for you on your birthday doesn’t love you – UK-based Nigerian lady advice ladies

A young Nigerian lady has taken to social media to explain one of the ways a girl can know if their boyfriend loves them.

The pretty woman known on Twitter as @RemelRossco warned ladies dating someone who does not celebrate them on their birthday.

She revealed that if a man does not organise a party or buy gifts for his girlfriend in celebration of hr birthday, then it means he does not love her.

Remel tweeted; ”If you’re dating a guy and he does nothing for your birthday, he’s not that into you

Plain and simple, and idc for the excuses.”

See the tweet:

@ameelya88; The same applies. He knows you’re gonna be seeing vids & pics of other couples enjoying and he’s purposely making you miss out on that too? Cruel.

@tarrynlondon; I once dated a guy who (on our 4th year together) didn’t know the reason we were going out for dinner until I told him it was my birthday that day 💀

@Quivver119; The men in the comments… this is why yall the most single and lonely demographic

@Cruxx92; Women nd sense of entitlement. Measuring affection using material tins.

@FemiAdeuyi; Life is not always white & black. If u think ur guy not goin crazy wit u on ur birthday is a sign he doesn’t care bout u, then so be it. Some ppl come from a family background where they don’t really do shit on their birthdays so you might hv 2 lower ya xpectatn 2 avoid disaptmn.

In related news, a Nigerian man simply identified as Chris has been left in a heartbroken and shocked state after realising on his girlfriend’s birthday that she is in a relationship with someone else.

He reportedly organised a romantic surprise for his lover named Jennifer, as she turned a new age and paid her a visit, only for him to be hit with an unexpected shock.

The young man reached her place and saw that her other man had already beat him to the game of surprising the lady

The incident was said to have happened on Tuesday, August 16, around the Federal Polytechnic Nekede area in Owerri, Imo State.

A video making the round online shows the moment a trumpeter sent by the other guy, was serenading her at the exact same time that Chris and his friends arrived with his own birthday gift.

It was gathered that the other man who organised the special package for her is referred to as Senator aka Pastor, and they have been dating for more than three years.

A dramatic scene unfolded as the hurt man became enraged and his babe tried to plead with him to calm down and listen to her explanation, but the pleas fell on deaf ears.

A source who is familiar with the case, said Chris ended their relationship five months on the spot.

According to a source; “Chris is my friend and we planned a birthday surprise package – ‘panran ran’ and other gifts – for his girlfriend of five months, Jennifer.

We got to her location only to see another birthday surprise from another man she calls Senator who is believed to be a pastor. We learned that Jennifer and this pastor have been dating for over three years.

Chris was devastated by the news and called the relationship quits ignoring her plea for forgiveness.”