- A man has sparked controversy online after claiming that children should not thank their parents for food, describing the act as a sign of servitude.
- His comments have generated mixed reactions, with many Nigerians debating whether gratitude to parents is a sign of respect or an unnecessary expectation.

A man has stirred widespread reactions on social media after sharing a childhood experience that shaped his views on gratitude, parenting and family culture.
According to him, one of the biggest cultural shocks he experienced while growing up was discovering that some of his friends thanked their parents after meals. He said the practice was completely unfamiliar to him and left him confused at the time.
The man explained that he was raised to believe that thanking parents for providing food was unnecessary because it was their responsibility to care for their children.
Reflecting on the experience, he said seeing his friends openly express gratitude to their parents after eating made him question the differences in upbringing across households.
Sharing his opinion, he wrote:
“Only slaves say thank you to their masters after eating.”
The statement quickly gained attention online and triggered a heated debate among social media users.
While some people agreed with his perspective, arguing that parents are obligated to provide for their children and should not expect appreciation for fulfilling that duty, others strongly disagreed.
Many critics argued that teaching children to say thank you is not about submission but about instilling respect, gratitude and good manners.
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