- She explained that after the man shared a photo with his girlfriend, she jokingly asked when he planned to propose Instead of brushing it off, the man reportedly replied, “she’s not my type for a wife,” despite the fact that they had been dating for three years.
A relationship story shared by a lady on X (formerly Twitter) has ignited widespread debate about commitment, honesty, and emotional responsibility in modern dating.
According to the post, the woman revealed that her friend had been in a relationship with his girlfriend for three years before making a statement that stunned many social media users.
She explained that after the man shared a photo with his girlfriend, she jokingly asked when he planned to propose. Instead of brushing it off, the man reportedly replied, “she’s not my type for a wife,” despite the fact that they had been dating for three years.
The comment quickly triggered anger, disappointment, and deep conversations online, with many users questioning why someone would remain in a long-term relationship without clear intentions for marriage or a shared future.
Reacting to the post, Matta questioned the lack of honesty, stating:
“Wasting a girl’s time for nothing. Why can’t people be straightforward about their feelings and whether they see a future with the individual or not? Why to waste anyone’s time including yours for nothing?”
Rebecca echoed similar sentiments, saying:
“It doesn’t take long to figure out if someone is marriage material, but I never understood why you would waste someone else’s time while you figure it out.”
Raven concluded with a metaphorical critique:
“3 years deep and she still ain’t ‘wife material’ to him? Bro just admitted he’s been auditioning someone he already knows he won’t cast. save her the plot twist and tell him to let her go find her real leading man.”
Fein wrote:
“Three years of dating, shared memories, probably countless compromises and he still decides she’s ‘not his type’ for a wife? That’s not just indecisive, it’s careless and unfair.
“Imagine investing time, energy, and emotions into someone only for them to drop that line like it means nothing. Three years is long enough to know if someone’s right for you. If he can’t see that, it’s a reflection on him, not her.”
GirlSoulGuru added:
“3 YEARS???? and he’s saying that out loud like it’s normal??? men will waste your youth with a smile, I’m sick.”
Timi commented:
“damn that ngga is crazy why wasting her time when you know you have nothing to do with her?”
InkForTruth described the situation as deeply unsettling, writing:
“Really it’s a chilling reminder that some people view relationships not as a journey toward partnership, but as a holding pattern to occupy their time until their REAL LIFE begins.”
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