“Nowadays, you need money to become member of your own family” – Man Reveals’

• A man has sparked online debate after saying money now determines acceptance, even within families, prompting many users to share personal experiences and reflections on how poverty affects relationships.

A man has triggered widespread debate online after claiming that money now determines acceptance and belonging, even within families.

In a post shared on X (formerly Twitter), Lawrence Kitema expressed frustration over what he described as the increasing cruelty faced by poor people in society. According to him, financial status has become a yardstick for value, even among relatives who are expected to offer unconditional support.

“Nowadays, you need money to become a member of your own family. This world is so cruel to the poor,” he wrote.

His statement quickly gained traction, with many users agreeing and sharing personal experiences of how money has reshaped family dynamics.

See some of the reactions trailing the post below:

Reacting to PapiSpit wrote: “Sad but funny because it’s true 😂 These days love got a cover charge and Thanksgiving feels like a shareholders meeting. Being broke turns you into a ‘distant relative’ real quick. That’s why I joke but I also get it. Money doesn’t buy love… it just buys you a seat at the table.”

Kitema’s claim, several users shared emotional and reflective responses.

Esperanza wrote: “In a world that appraises your worth by your wallet, remember that God appraises you by your soul. Poverty is a circumstance, not a character flaw…”

JP Attueyi said: “It should not be so. Some families can’t have meeting if the rich one is not available. What the rich one says is what everyone must do.”

Aditi added: “Yeah, that feeling hits hard when even family starts treating love like a paid subscription. The cruelty isn’t new, just more shameless now.”