- A young lady has sparked online discussions about the phrase “he’s just a friend.”
- She suggests that both genders use specific phrases to describe relationships, such as “bestie” or “just a friend.”
- These expressions may conceal deeper feelings or intentions.
A young lady has stirred conversation online after revealing what she believes women really mean when they tell their partners, “he’s just a friend.”
She noted that both men and women often use certain phrases when talking about other people in their relationships. Common expressions include calling someone a “bestie” or insisting a person is “just a friend,” but, according to her, those words may hide a deeper reality.
In a video that quickly went viral, the woman shared her perspective on the phrase.
“If your girlfriend has ever said, ‘he’s just a friend,’ this is what that statement truly means from a female point of view,” she explained.
“1. I’m sorry that I’m attracted to him just the way I’m attracted to you. I do not want to present him to you so as for you not to put me in a situation where I have to chose between him and you.
“2. I’m sorry that I have to keep him as a backup plan. So if you break my heart tomorrow, I’ll have someone to fall back to.
“3. I’m sorry that he keeps me company when you get me angry. And I want to present this friendship in a platonic way so as you not to get angry with me.
“4. I’m sorry that if situation present itself in another way, I will gladly fall to him.
“5. And I’m sorry that I have someone that I also like in as much as I like you, so I would rather present him as ‘just a friend’ so as not to make you break up with me.”
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See some comments below:
@Ellyson: “No be lie. A girl that said we should be close friends purposely came to my place yesterday and we knack.”
@Harmless: “As a man if you understand and agree to everything a woman says, your life is spoilt in its entirety.”
@Amari: “My own” he’s just a friend” don Dey go spend weekend with am😂”
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