- Nigerian music star Paul Okoye, also known as Rudeboy, has expressed his views on entitlement.
- In an Instagram story, he highlighted the irony of people suffering and carrying the cross not receiving it until they stop giving it.

Nigerian music icon Paul Okoye, popularly known as Rudeboy, has opened up about the painful reality of entitlement and how people often react when generosity ends.
Taking to his Instagram story, Rudeboy shared a reflective message highlighting the irony of human behavior. He noted that those for whom you make sacrifices and carry burdens often remain indifferent—until you stop offering them help.
He expressed his disappointment over how quickly people can label someone as “bad” simply because they no longer receive from them.
He wrote;
“Sometimes in life, eh!
The people wey you dey suffer for and carry cross for no go send you, until you stop giving them.
Then you will become a bad person”.
His message has sparked conversations among fans, with many agreeing that entitlement and ungratefulness are common experiences in relationships both personal and professional.
In other news, Popular Nollywood actress, Jumoke Odetola, has addressed the growing curiosity surrounding her personal life, particularly her relationship status. In a recent Instagram post, the award-winning actress expressed her displeasure with fans and social media users who constantly ask about her love life.
Odetola, known for keeping her private affairs away from the public eye, warned those probing into her romantic life to stop immediately. She noted that such personal questions are unwelcome and unnecessary, emphasizing that her marital status is no one’s business but hers.
“Stop asking about my man. My relationship is personal and not for public discussion,” she stated in her post, making it clear that she will not entertain any further questions about her partner or marriage plans.
The actress further stressed the importance of boundaries, reminding her followers that being in the spotlight does not mean every aspect of her life is open for scrutiny. She encouraged fans to focus on her work and not her private life.
Jumoke’s message has sparked mixed reactions online, with many supporting her right to privacy, while others believe public figures should be more open. Regardless, she remains firm in her stance on keeping her love life off social media.
“Enough is enough. Stop asking where is my man, or who is your man. Stop asking personal questions that are none of your business! I keep saying this everytime!!
“Enough is enough. It’s no longer funny, but let me express myself today”.
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